ABOUT ME

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What kind of a person am I?
People see me as sensible, cautious, careful & practical. And as clever, gifted, or talented, but modest... Not a person who makes friends too quickly or easily, but I am extremely loyal to friends that I make and I kind of want the same loyalty in return. People who get to know me realize it takes a lot to shake my trust in my friends, but equally that it takes me a long time to get over it if that trust is ever broken.


I am Good-hearted and hard working, I am down-to-earth and able to be simultaneously strong and sweet. I am very tuned in to the feelings and needs of those whom I care about. My great communication skills, coupled with my unmatched loyalty and devotion.


There are people whose actions often cause other people to think, "What a Nut!" I can be one of those people sometimes. There are occasions when I do things just to get a reaction out of other people. Some of these actions could make my friends and family just shake their heads and smile. I also show, however, some level of restraint. If I do something a little crazy, I have thought through the consequences first before I go ahead and enjoy myself.


I am out of control -- but in a fun way -- when it comes to emotionally loony behavior. It seems that I stretch the limits of what I am willing to do for the sake of my emotions or in expressing my emotions to others. My No-holds-barred attitude could imply willingness to step out of normally acceptable bounds in order to get my point across. I am someone who has extremely strong emotions, whether positive or negative. I want to moderate my emotional behavior, just to keep a little balance in my life. Letting my emotions rule my loony behavior sometimes gets me in trouble.


In terms of public and physical looniness, I seem pretty moderate. This means that I sometimes enjoy doing things that other people think are goofy or off the wall, although I also temper these actions with less loony behavior. My behavior could imply a desire for some, although not too much, crazy fun and excitement in my life. There are sometimes when I desire and seek goofy fun and excitement, and others in which I prefer to be calmer and more serious.


Most of the time I prefer to express myself, and tell people just how I feel. That's not to say that about everything. Other feelings stay wrapped up tight among my emotional private papers. I like to have my space, but the idea of sharing my life or my things with someone else does not seem to spark an overwhelming feeling of panic. I kind of feel like a twinge of Claustrophobia when I spend a large amount of time with my girlfriend, if I have one, and I sometimes feel a little uneasy about settling down. I do not, however, view sharing my space and myself with someone I care about as the end of my freedom. I want to be sure that I have the right person and that it's the right time.

Whether it's a conversation regarding a big vacation six months from now or a playful talk about what I'm going to name my future children, I sometimes thrive on discussing the future with my girlfriend, if I have one.

The thought of making long-term plans as a couple and the feeling of security and intimacy that accompanies this thought are very comforting and exciting to me. Although I try to avoid discussions about "us" to some extent, I do realize that occasionally being vocal about my feelings is very important when I'm in a relationship. I am not necessarily scared off by "future talk" or affectionate words, but I do not like to engage in these types of serious discussions too often.

Although I value good communication in a friendship, I might find it difficult to always be straightforward. I might have the tendency to dodge an issue in order to steer clear of confrontation. I might take some of my friendships for granted. I might have the best of intentions, but it's not a wise idea to sacrifice loyalty in any good friendship. Remember, a true friend is hard to find -- so when you stumble upon me, I will treat you with a great amount of respect and devotion. I am a very caring and thoughtful friend; it might not be too natural for me to put myself in someone else's shoes. I have a tendency to provide a significant amount of comfort to those whom I care about, but I may not always feel at ease playing that role. Most likely, I waver between being the social motivator and the one who needs to be bitten by the fun bug. I am a cheerful and energetic friend who loves to have a good time, but I also equally value my "down time" or alone time. I am well mannered on a first date; I could still afford to polish my etiquette a bit more. I sometimes feel a little too comfortable on first dates, or possibly just too nervous to keep my cool.

I appreciate the subtlety of messages that can be sent to someone, in whom I'm interested, however, there may be times when I express my interests in a way that can appear too needy or desperate. I enjoy having a natural give-and-take dialogue in which both of me and my date equally participate, chances are there are times when I reveal too much about myself too quickly. I might ask too many personal questions.


I am on the right path. I am trying to forgive those who that have hurt me, but I still harbor a little negativity toward them. Since I do not have a personal relationship with these people. I am on my way to turning these bothersome events into faint memories. Live and let live! That's kind of my motto with friends. I have a clear capacity to forgive and forget. I don't keep a mental file cabinet of past hurts. I seem to move past unpleasant events with relative ease, especially if they no longer have relevance in my life. I appear to have learned that eliminating the burden of long-held grudges can genuinely improve the quality of my relationships and my life. I recall much of what my past or current girlfriends have done to hurt or disappoint me. These events are well set in my mind.

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